What if the women were rushing, due to some emergency, to be with their in laws? Or if they were coming home from the airport or the railway station? Would the rapists then deserve a stricter sentence?
What do most Indian women (or men?) do in similar circumstances? How do you manage when you have to go somewhere late in the evening?
Two women gang-raped in moving car in Gurgaon
The girls alleged that the men took turns in raping them inside the car, a police officer said, adding that a medical examination confirmed rape.
The victims lodged a complaint that they were offered a lift in the car outside a Gurgaon pub last night where they had attended a party, Deputy Commissioner of Police (East) Maheshwar Dayal told reporters.
“The two women took lift from MG Road to Delhi last night in the car. After travelling for some distance, two more men boarded the car,” Dayal said. [link]
Although the first sentence mentions that medical examination confirmed rape, many comments suspect the women were sex workers who were not paid and hence falsely alleged rape.
Or maybe they think sex workers’ are paid to get raped by men so that men’s daughters and sisters are not sexually assaulted? Many Indians don’t know that sex workers are equal citizens and it is a crime to have sex with them without their consent.
Here’s a comment:
Why did they ask for lift ??
Is the location of lift (the Pub) right place to ask for lift ??
May be they are hookers and when they were not paid they called it rape.
Not all girls are same dude!!
Of course it was unsafe to ask for lift, but was there safer night time public transport available?
What were their options?
Option 1: Ideally and most of the police, neighborhood uncles and political leaders prefer this option – women should not go to pubs at all. In fact, many believe that women should not drink at all, liquor in India is made and sold for men’s consumption.
Option 2: If you do go, then leave before 8 pm [Link] while the rest of the people (i.e. men) continue to enjoy.
[Andhra government has actually reserved pubs for men after 10 pm [Link]. So now, in Andhra, if a rapist can prove that the victim was coming from a pub when she was assaulted, she can be legally blamed for ‘asking for it’?]
Option 3: Drive your own car and hope there are no break downs on the way home.
Please note: If you are with male friends then you are asking for some serious victim blaming, because you are going against Indian culture. Going with your brother/cousin doesn’t help much either – link.
Option 4: If you choose to not go to the pub and decide instead to order pizza at home – that would be asking for it too. Mumbai pizza delivery boy tries to rape, kill woman.
Option 5: So why not cook your own meal instead and serve it to your family (not friends, because female friends should be in their owns homes after dark, and male friends are against Indian culture) with a pleasing smile? There’s is joy in not doing what you feel like doing. Dancing, drinking, ‘drinking and driving’ are men’s vices.
UPDATE: There seem to be two versions of the same news. Did they take lift or did they hire a cab? Do they just get blamed or do they get blamed a little more? The good thing is, a medical examination was done and the police is looking for the rapists.
Gurgaon, June 27 (IANS) …
The two women had hired a car outside the Sahara Mall for Rs.300 to go to Tughlaqabad area in south Delhi. The driver, however, let two other men into the car. [Two Delhi women gang-raped in Gurgaon, five held]
Don’t such crimes take place before dark?
There was less victim blaming when a 24-year-old BPO employee was abducted and gang-raped in a moving car in Gurgaon. The survivor had just finished her afternoon shift at 7pm and was waiting for a cab outside her office at the Delhi-Gurgaon Expressway, when the incident occurred. Read more: [Link]
In the same city, on the same road, a woman was raped when she was traveling in a Radio Cab [Link], and another was accompanied by her brother in a cab, but was dragged out of the cab and raped [link], and yet another was molested by a mob [Link].
And yet, these women danced on these streets after dark. [Link]
Wouldn’t public spaces become safer for all women if there were more women out on the streets at all hours?
In Gurgaon, jobs, safety and roads after 8 pm, reserved for men?
Pubs in Andhra to be officially Reserved For Men?
How does the Gurgaon administration make it even more difficult for women to find employment, and stay safe on Gurgaon roads?
Gurgaon pub attendant gang rape victim: Went willingly? Refused medical test?
India leads in sexual violence, worst on gender equality: Study
Why was this radio cabbie, a rapist, not afraid of being arrested?
Kai Po Che : Through feminist eyes…
The night women were safe on Gurgaon roads.
One Billion Rising, Gurgaon : Photographs.