Here’s a positive news. An Indian American family is taking action against a man allegedly attempting to black mail their daughter by threatening to share her nude photos online.
Daughter of Indian-American billionaire allegedly blackmailed over nude pictures TOI link shared by Rachna (who blogs at Naari, here). I would have changed the heading to ‘Billionaire takes stern action against man allegedly attempting to blackmail his daughter.’
Not everybody saw this as positive. For some it was not about a criminal being punished, but about an unmarried girl forgetting that her body belonged to her future husband. Disagree?
So a young woman, during a relationship, “voluntarily took nude photos and video,” which she shared with the man she was in relationship with.
Imagine another young woman who shared similar photos with a man she was married to.
When they break up the men decide to black mail the two women by threatening to share the pictures on the internet.
Do you think the second woman would receive more support? Why? Doesn’t that also automatically make it less likely for a married man to threaten his wife with sharing her nude photos?
This is how Patriarchy reinforces itself – by this deeply entrenched system of rewards, concessions, threats and punishments.
In India gang rapists record themselves committing a crime and threaten to ‘expose’ the proof that could lead to their conviction (Punishable with life imprisonment/capital punishment) Those who should be taking immediate action to arrest the criminals, watch rape videos (in the Assembly!) and ask women to watch how much skin they are showing. [Three BJP Ministers, including the Women and Child Welfare Minister caught watching rape videos in assembly.]
For some this comes as an opportunity to reinforce misogyny.
Girls need to be little bit aware of the consequences. Men, no matter where they are from – will enjoy the company, moment and then also try to extract money from the wealthy… having said that this man need to be punished so no other man try to fool the ladies…
One sane voice:
“its hard for judgemental people to understand but this is a LAW and ORDER issue not a moral one, it is not hard to see from the comments why so many atrocities happen against women in India.”
“I blamed myself for putting myself in that situation, for being so vulnerable and so incredibly stupid to believe any of his bullshit.”
The Guwahati mob molestation video and the Gurgaon mob molestation video.
“So why do we wear clothes again??
Guwahati mob molests girl, video goes viral online.
Dev D: Practical Paro Artless Chandramukhi
Slut Walk. And how women’s bodies are different, so they need to be covered for their own safety.
“why not marry them first and then have sex ? What prevents you from doing it ? Deep within YOU WANT JUST SEX and nothing more”
Romanticizing innocence, chastity and related taboos for women.
What is this big problem with Bra Strap Showing?
Here’s why I think the society should not obsess over a woman’s virginity.
Contrast what C C Patil said about crimes against women, with what the man we met in Mewat said :
Feeling safe, learning and unlearning nothing in Mewat