“We dream so we don’t have to be apart so long. If we are in each other’s dreams, we can be together…”
19th Jan is Tejaswee’s birthday, she would have been 20. I keep thinking of how we would have felt if we knew on her 19th birthday what the year had in store for us. I used to sing this old song to my kids, we sang it together a lot, mainly the first few lines and the chorus and then making up whatever seemed apt.
I have no idea how I am going to feel this Wednesday. This picture was taken on 19th Jan 2008, in Pune.
Tejaswee with the cat she brought home from a garbage dump in 2004, Sher Khan.
Sometimes ‘not remembering’ is less painful than remembering but I would rather remember and cry, than try to ‘not remember’ and smile. But I hope to remember and still smile. And smiling is made easier by messages like this one from Pallavi,
“I hope you will celebrate the day Tj was born, celebrate the happiness that your daughter gave you, and the incredibly close bond that you shared. she will not want you to cry. she will want you to celebrate ‘her’.”
I am sure we will do that, even if we do cry.