But there is more to this ‘permission’…
Sharing The Purple Sheep’s response to the two emails by small town girl married off into a village’.
I feel we must make changes inwards for us to be assertive and at peace with ourselves. Only when we are able to de clutter our minds and free ourselves of other people’s projections on us can we find the path we want to take and the strength to follow.
I think most problems in life are when we look for approval and validation outside of ourselves.
I am undergoing therapy and my therapist asked me to write ‘I love myself’ as many times as I can. So I made a small illustration in which i incorporated ‘I love myself’ which I have attached with this email. My therapist told me its very healing to look at. Sometimes pictures convey at a different level than words. I request you to share if with the LW either on your blog or email as you see fit.
Sending prayers and hope
I am attaching one more. Here the girl is is happy and at peace with herself because she has built a boundary of love around her making it difficult for gossip, criticism and flattery and other ways of control to permeate through. Please do share this also with her. I hope it will be a positive start.
I hope it reinforces positivity and a strong belief in ourselves.
Thank you IHM for being a wonderful channel of awareness.
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