Do you think anybody who raises their daughters as future daughters in law can want to have and to raise daughters?
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Marriage and children are the end of everything
Marriage and children just seems soo.. boring honestly. Every girls dream is to meet the perfect man, get a nice house, and have kids. To me it just seems not only waste of time but dull. There are enough people in the world we don’t need to keep adding more. Getting married kind a makes a relationship much less romantic and more pointless next to the fact that its incredibly boring. Is marriage that the only thing to look forward to? getting married, having kids, and getting a job? That’s it? Is there nothing else to do in life? Are we women not allowed to have dreams and aspirations which exclude the word ‘love’. Are we reduced to being baby making machines. As soon a girl gets to a mature age society starts asking when she will get married and then they will pressurise her, and then after marriage nonsense when is the cute one coming, then when is the next one coming oh is that enough children? Don’t you want more to make your family complete? Then more ridiculous questions and then when the girls’ daughter gets to an age the bloody circles continues. No one wants anything different in life because the society won’t let you. We make the society and we are the one who destroy my faith in humanity. If we women only deserve to be married then why educate us? What is the whole point of so much education if the end result will be being left in the kitchen with the belan to cook the bloody family a delicious meal. I haven’t even turned 18 yet and my parents are already thinking about my marriage. All my dreams have gone out of the window. Now all I got to learn is how to bloody serve my in laws. What will I do with a such a life?