Love this quote by Will Smith.
“Stop letting people who do so little for you control so much of your mind and feelings and emotions. ” – Will Smith (Link)
And of course people who do care, would not want to control their loved ones’ minds and feelings. Do you agree? And yet, we seem to hear much more about how much a willingness to (pretend to?) ‘be somebody else’ is an indication that we care.
Like if one person likes wearing jeans but agrees to live in saris, is that an indication of their devotion to the person who (for some reason) wants to see them in saris? But why does one person wearing a sari (or jeans, salwar kurta etc) makes another person happy? Does it really make them happy?